Human-specific (HS) genes have been implicated in brain evolution, but their impact on human neuron development and diseases remains unclear. Here, we study SRGAP2B/C, two HS gene duplications of the ancestral synaptic gene SRGAP2A, in human cortical pyramidal neurons (CPNs) xenotransplanted in the mouse cortex. Downregulation of SRGAP2B/C in human CPNs led to strongly accelerated synaptic development, indicating their requirement for the neoteny that distinguishes human synaptogenesis. SRGAP2B/C genes promoted neoteny by reducing the synaptic levels of SRGAP2A,thereby increasing the postsynaptic accumulation of the SYNGAP1 protein, encoded by a major intellectual disability/autism spectrum disorder (ID/ASD) gene. Combinatorial loss-of-function experiments in vivo revealed that the tempo of synaptogenesis is set by the reciprocal antagonism between SRGAP2A and SYNGAP1, which in human CPNs is tipped toward neoteny by SRGAP2B/C. Thus, HS genes can modify the phenotypic expression of genetic mutations leading to ID/ASD through the regulation of human synaptic neoteny.